"When there’s nothing left to burn, you have to set yourself on fire.” After moving forward—after the burning of photos, messages, and other memories—the last thing to do is to remove yourself. In the end, you can never truly be done with a relationship until you yourself have moved on mentally and emotionally. Feelings may remain regardless if the materials have been removed for good. So the saying, “when there’s nothing left to burn, you have to set yourself on fire,” pertains to the removal of oneself to truly be happy. It won’t be easy and the pain will be great, but it’ll all be worth it when the flames die down and a new you has risen have from the ashes."